MAKE YOURSELF
Build a life, a body of work, and income
that are a direct expression of who you are.
I HELP PEOPLE MAKE THEMSELVES.
And I’m Making JGB in real time.
Most people spend their lives trying to “make it.”
Chasing success. Money. Stability. Recognition.
Go to school → Get a job → Build a career → Invest in a retirement savings plan
…but that path doesn’t hold true anymore.
More people are finding themselves stuck between systems that no longer work
and a future that isn’t clearly defined.
So the question becomes:
What do you build when there’s no path to follow?
YOU BUILD YOURSELF
Not just internally,
but through your work, through applying your skills, through seeking exposure, knowledge and training… and through what you create from these lived experiences.
Making yourself is the process of doing the work to become who you are,
while building a life that actually reflects it.
Not after you figure yourself out.
But through the process of doing so.
MY STORY
I’ve been on my own since I was 15.
For a long time, I was stuck in survival mode,
but I never stopped chasing something bigger for myself.
Every time I got knocked down, I kept getting back up.
I kept showing up for myself.
In 2018, I hit rock bottom and made a decision that changed everything.
I took a leap of faith.
I stepped out of a life that was keeping me stuck,
and rebuilt from the ground up,
traveling to places where I could afford to work part-time
and finally give myself the space to heal.
What started as survival became a process.
A way of understanding myself.
A way of rebuilding my life.
A way of turning my lived experience into something meaningful.
Now, I’m integrating after a deeply transformative journey.
And through this whole process, I’ve come to understand something clearly:
You don’t become who you are first, then build your life.
You become who you are by building it.
That’s what I call making yourself.
THE PATH
This process follows a natural progression:
AWARENESS → HEALING → BECOMING → EXPRESSING
Not as a rigid sequence,
but as a cycle you weave through as you grow.
THE 4 Stages
1. AWARENESS
Understanding yourself.
→ How you’re wired
→ Your patterns, beliefs, and behaviors
→ The stories you’ve been living inside
This is where everything starts.
2. HEALING
Clearing what’s in the way.
→ Processing past experiences
→ Regulating your nervous system
→ Releasing what no longer serves
This creates space for something new.
3. BECOMING
Rebuilding who you are.
→ Developing self-trust
→ Reconnecting to your intuition
→ Learning discernment and direction
This is where identity shifts, and you start to build.
4. Expression
Turning who you are into something tangible.
→ Creating work that reflects you
→ Sharing your voice, ideas, perspective
→ Building a life & income from your lived experience
This is where your life becomes your work.
Most people get stuck in one stage.
→ Endless awareness without change
→ Healing without direction
→ Becoming without action
→ Expression without structure
I help you move through all of it.
From understanding yourself,
to building something tangible based on
the process of becoming who you are.
THE SYSTEM BEHIND
MAKE YOURSELF
Making yourself isn’t just a mindset.
It’s a process.
As you move through
Awareness, Healing, Becoming, and Expression,
you are also building something in real time.
Your life becomes your source.
Your work becomes the expression.
Here’s how that happens:
CAPTURE → EXTRACT → STRUCTURE → PACKAGE → DISTRIBUTE
The H2MY Process
(how to make yourself)
1. CAPTURE
Document what’s happening in real time.
→ Thoughts, patterns, realizations
→ Experiences and emotional shifts
→ What you’re learning as you move through life
If you don’t capture it, you may miss valuable opportunities to create and share.
2. EXTRACT
Identify what actually matters.
→ What is the insight here?
→ What pattern is emerging?
→ What lesson is underneath the experience?
This is where meaning is created.
3. STRUCTURE
Turn insight into something usable.
→ Organize ideas into themes, frameworks, or steps
→ Connect patterns across time
→ Make it something that can be understood by others
This is where clarity is built.
4. PACKAGE
Shape it into content or offers.
→ Writing, videos, teachings, frameworks
→ Programs, systems, or tools
→ Something that can be shared or used
This is where your work takes form.
5. DISTRIBUTE
Share it with the right people.
→ Publish your work
→ Reach your audience
→ Create opportunities for exchange (value or income)
This is where your work has potential to create impact.
This is how expression becomes something real.
Not by waiting until you’re ready,
but by working with what’s already happening in your life,
and turning it into something you can use as content, offers, services, lead magnets, etc.
WHAT THIS CREATES
Over time, this process allows you to:
→ Understand yourself deeply
→ Heal and rebuild your internal foundation
→ Develop a strong sense of identity
→ Create meaningful work from your lived experience
→ Build something that can support you
→ Attract followers and community who align with your path
Not instantly. Not perfectly.
But intentionally.
WHO THIS IS FOR
Whether you are:
→ Learning who you are and how you’re wired
→ Healing your past and trying to move forward
→ Wanting guidance and someone to walk alongside you
→ Stepping into a new version of yourself
→ Building a business or body of work
→ Struggling to structure your ideas or reach your people
→ Looking for systems to support your growth and scale
→ Ready to turn your experience, knowledge, or perspective into something real
This is the work.